Relinquish the False Self - Discernment

     I almost don't want to post this section just because I'm afraid of totally butchering it up.  I have had many conversations with younger friends who ask me for advice on how to discern God's will for their life.  Before reading this section, I've always just had one answer: pray about it.  It has always been a hard topic for me to explain to others, because God's calling comes to every single person in a unique way; no two callings are the same.  We have callings such as Paul's where he was knocked to the ground and blinded by God, and we have Moses, who was called through a burning bush.

     There are many different views on discerning God's will.  Some Christian's tend to believe that when given two situations, it is always God's will for you to choose the more sacrificial and difficult of the options, while some believe that God's will is whatever option brings you riches, perks, or success.  I think that in most cases, some kind of sacrifice is involved; if only a sacrifice of your time.  I also believe that God blesses you when you follow his will for your life, even though your blessings may not be what you expect.

     "Biblical discernment involves more than good judgment, open doors and decision making skills.  Right discernment arises out of a relationship with God in prayer.  It is founded on the reality of the Holy Spirit's presence within us.  Jesus makes it clear the Holy Spirit is our Counselor and Guide into God's will and ways."  -  Spiritual Disciplines Handbook

    
     One of the most important things to remember when searching for God's will is to be patient.  God may not reveal to you your calling after you pray your first prayer.  I believe that sometimes Christian's feel like they can force God's hand into revealing his will by praying or fasting all the time.  There's a simple fact: God only works on HIS time.  Discernment of God's will depends on trust; trust that God will provide, and that he always has good intentions toward us.